Sunday, April 8, 2012

देश की कन्या : सहारे की हथेली



कहे परिवेश , मै कन्या
कहे यह देश , मै धन्या
कलेजा कलेश से कम्पित
ये मै हूँ , देश की कन्या 

अश्रुजल से हुई खारी
कहा जाता मुझे नारी
परा तक पीर की पर्वत
कहा जाता मुझे औरत

यहाँ हूं देश की कन्या 
वहां  हूं देश की कन्या
बहन, पत्नी, जननी, जन्या
इसी परिवेश की कन्या

मै सोनल हूं, मै सलमा हूं, 
सुरय्या हूं , मै सरला हूँ 
मै जमुना हूँ, मै जौली हूं, 
मै रजिया हूँ, मै मौली हूँ

मै चंदो हूँ, मै लाजो हूँ
सुनिला हूँ, प्रकाशो हूँ
मै कुंती हूँ, मै बानो हूँ
मै हुस्ना हूँ, मै ज्ञानो हूँ
मै राधा , रामप्यारी हूँ
वतन की आम नारी हूँ
दुखों की कैद में लेकिन 
रहूंगी और कितने दिन 

न हूँ मै बंदिनी सुन लो
न हूँ अवलंबिनी सुन लो
सृजन की शक्ति है मुझमे
अतुल अनुरक्ति है मुझमे

मै बौद्धिक हूँ , विलक्षण हूँ
त्वरा तत्पर,  प्रति क्षण हूँ
मै प्रतिभा हूँ, मै दक्षता हूँ
मै जननी हूँ, मै ममता हूँ

सहारे की हथेली हूँ
कहा तुमने पहेली हूँ ....?
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अशोक चक्रधर 

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Be Ready to Marry Five Sons to One Woman


The provisional figures of 2011 Census are now in public domain. the data shows our  population growth rate have somewhat slowed. But the most disturbing fact have emerged from analysis of 0-6 age group and there sex ratio. it seems the drop in population growth rate have come on the price of female children of our society. this has become a pan India epidemic. 
Chhattisgarh seems in a better position, perhaps due to lack of advanced medicinal diagnosis facilities in most districts, but drop in CSR have definitely registered in all except 3 district.     With a drop of 29 points, Raigarh district have registered highest decline in last decade. As per provisional reports of Census India , Statewide position in Child sex ratio is given here under;

Rank
District
Sex ratio 2001
Sex ratio 2011
Absolute change 2001-2011
% change      2001-2011
1
Raigarh
972
943
-29
-3.0
2
Mahasamund
989
960
-29
-2.9
3
Bastar
1014
991
-23
-2.3
4
Surguja
974
955
-19
-1.9
5
Janjgir Champa
964
945
-19
-2.0
6
Durg
975
958
-17
-1.7
7
Rajandgaon
990
976
-14
-1.5
8
Korba
976
964
-11
-1.2
9
Dhamtari
979
969
-10
-1.0
10
Dantewada
1014
1005
-9
-0.9
11
Raipur
971
965
-6
-0.6
12
Koria
974
968
-6
-0.6
13
Kanker
976
975
-1
-0.1
14
Jashpur
964
974
+10
+1.0
15
Bilaspur
947
957
+10
+1.1
16
Kabirdham
962
973
+10
+1.1

For age group 0-6
Gender Bias and Sex ratio
The pre-dominantly patriarchal, social, cultural and religious set up based on the foundation that the family line runs through a male has contributed extensively to the secondary status of women in India. This has led to strong desire to avoid the birth of a female child in the family resulting in decline in the child sex ratio (SR) at an alarming rate.

Sex Ratio (0-6) in Raigarh: 1991-2001-2011
In India, the last century was marked by an almost continual decline in the country’s SR. The beginning of the 21st century has shown a marginal increase (from 927 in 1991 to 933 in 2001). Other census statistics reveal a wide gap in the rural and urban ratios (Chart 2). In 2001, the SR in rural areas was 946, compared to 900 in urban areas. A defining indicator of the grim scenario is the sharp decline in the child sex ratio (in the age group 0-6 years) over the last decade. The overall child sex ratio has declined from 945 in 1991 to 927 in 2001. Alarmingly, the urban areas, more literate and therefore perceived as being more modern, have shown a huge 29-point decline – from 935 in 1991 to 906 in 2001.

  
The subordinate status of women in India is largely a result of patriarchy and its influences on the social, cultural and religious aspects of life. A patriarchal structure is based on the foundation that the family line runs through a male – that is, all descent and inheritance are traced through the male. This has resulted in an exalted status for the male and reduced the woman to a secondary position, dependent on and controlled by different men in the family– father, brother, husband, son – at the various stages of her life. This unequal relationship governs the rules of marriage, which is considered a process whereby the father passes on his burden, his daughter, to the husband, whose family demands a high price – a dowry – for taking on the burden. It often takes generations to repay the debts incurred to pay the dowry and other marriage expenses. Marriage only reaffirms the woman’s subordinate status, giving her no say in the running of her life or any control over her body or bodily integrity.
Social discrimination in context of Raigarh district.
In Raigarh district, Discrimination is visible in various forms. Sex Ratio in rural areas of district is slightly better (1003) than urban (930) while women work participation is 39.2%. Female literacy rate is far behind (57%) then men (82%). This is even worse in case of SC women (53%) and ST women (45%). A sincere and sustained effort for gender equality as an integral part of all development programmes needs to be initiated. Self help groups and reservations in panchyat have increased women’s say in household and community level decision making but still a long way is ahead for gender equity.

Where  they  all  have gone ..... ?? 
( A sight at raigarh  Railway Station) 

Access to education for them is determined only in part by their gender. The gender role for girls as defined by traditional society often persuades parents to assume that the education of girls is an unnecessary investment. Girls are usually made to stay home to look after the household needs of the family, which they continue to do after they grow up and get married. Many times, girls are officially enrolled in school but not attend school.  Financial constraint is a major factor that prevents girls from attending school. Though all children face the threat of not being sent to school when their parents are not economically well off, girls find it even more difficult because of their prescribed gender role.

Thus, Misuse of the techniques like amniocentesis to determine the sex of the foetus and subsequent abortions if the foetus was found to be female, is increasing in the district. 
Endangered Species..??
Killing young-borns was once seen as a barbaric practice has, chillingly, now become increasingly accepted, albeit sometimes in more “technically advanced” forms. Female infanticide has found a partner in female feticide, to give India a low Sex Ratio and a consistently falling female population. 

The most starling fact
In situation analysis, the most startling fact come over that most advanced, educated , powerful and richer communities has lowest Child sex ratio. The communities leading in  political empowerment and business state and has done worst in Raigarh and all across the state. "Yato Mahajne gato sa pantha" Means where the rich and powerful go becomes the way of society. the same is underway in our society today. 

if the situation is not reversed with immediate attention, next twenty - thirty years down the line, Our sons or there sons have to follow the suit of Pandvas. Marrying Five sons to one women. 
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